A note about CONSENT
Consent is: permission granted. Agreement. Educated understanding and continuous enthusiastic participation.
Consent is: yes please and thank you. I want this.
Consent is: organic, fluid and subject to change.
Consent can be withdrawn at any point. And if it is, any and all actions must cease with all haste immediately.
*Continuing once consent has been withdrawn is a consent violation*
*Using guilt/pressure/intimidation to attempt to make someone continue doing/allowing something that they no longer wish to is a consent violation*
*Using guilt or any form of manipulation to get someone to do something that they are not 100% sure of is a consent violation*
And the line between decent human being and abusive twatwaffle has been crossed.
Don’t be that fuckwit - if someone says no - in any way shape form size or colour - even if they’d previously said yes, stop whatever the fuck you are doing - no matter what it is immediately and absofuckinglutely do not attempt to force or coerce continuation. Just stop and do what needs done to ensure comfort and safety.
And remember: consent, the withdrawal thereof and how to deal with it applies to every single thing in life, not just fuckery.
TTFN 🐾
Shiny
